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On top of that, I'm looking for someone who is into it because THEY like it, not because I like it. I myself have very high standards with women, in regards to the normal things everyone looks for (intelligence, humor, looks, hygiene, good taste, etc.), but on top of that, I am also looking for someone who shares my fetish.
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I understand though, not wanting to settle. It's definitely a odds game, throw enough darts and you're bound to hit a bullseye. Well, the failure rate will be 100%, until you succeed. About Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers Terms Privacy Policy & Safety How YouTube works Test new features Press Copyright Contact us Creators. This is kind of upsetting as it is a big part of a sexuality, in the same way that my sexual encounters need to be with a woman to be entirely pleasing. I do date women I like who aren't feedees, and the more I do this, I realise ill have to 'settle' for a girl who isn't a feedee. Although I try not to let social norms get in the way of my happiness. And I have dated some narrow minded backwards women. Also, one problem with bringing it up is the stigma associated with it. In my experience I have tried dating larger women and tried bringing it up but none of them have turned out to be feedees or interested in it. And if the idea is just plain repulsive to them and ruins the relationship, it's not a huge loss. If they like you, they'll probably be understanding, if not actually open to trying it. I'd say, if things are going well and you have a good connection, bring it up within the first 1-2 months of the relationship. 90% of the time, this will probably end in rejection, but that's life.ĭon't wait until you've been dating someone for 2 years to bring it up though. Then, when you feel comfortable, find a way to tell them about your fetish. There's no real strategy here, just find someone you like - preferably someone who, at the very least, enjoys food a lot and isn't obsessed with fitness and calorie-counting. There are a surprising number of success stories I've heard, in which the feeder introduced their partner to feederism and effectively "converted them." Hell, some have even found that, against all odds, their partner was already into it (see this thread: ). While you can always try to meet someone who is already part of the feederism community online, I don't think there's anything wrong with dating just anyone, and trying later on to see if they'd be interested in your kinks.